lunge and plunge towards your spouse becomes so overwhelming that only a miracle could prevent those deeds from happening. And then it happens. A sense of calmness takes over...a resolve to totally ignore the offensive actions or words.
Frustrations and moments of discontentment happen. Those famous words your Mama said ring in your ears,
"Don't be so fast to lose your temper but be quick to be forgiving." However, on a less philosophical note you think, "You're just not worth jail time."